DARE TO COMPARE__OUR SERVICE
One session 4 to 6 hrs (typical)
We come to your home at a time that suites you saving you the costs of travel and parking
Typically $1400 ($350 per hour) or less if you cannot afford it
Over 20 years in private practice as a mediator
100% - almost all cases are settled amicably
Our focus is on helping you have a great relationship whether you divorce or not for the children
- RECONCILIATION AND DIVORCE
We never push anyone to divorce and allow people to change their minds. We are impartial, neutral, non-directive ad non-judgmental. We do not take sides with the one who wants a divorce or the other.
We teach communication skills to pass on to your children and for you to use in your next relationship even if it is this one reconstructed.
We teach how to build relationships so it works next time.
We teach a model of change because if you keep doing the same thing you are going to get the same result.
We teach conflict resolution because you will always be parents and will therefore forever have to resolve conflict and teach your children to resolve conflict or they will find themselves in your shoes pretty soon.
Stan Posthumus MSW LLB APM gives his personal attention to everyone. He makes sure that he is available as much as possible and is happy to answer your questions whenever they arise.
1 (973) 428-1034
1 (888) RELATE 8 toll free
Email: stanp@BeyondWinWin.com
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vs REGULAR MEDIATORS / LAWYERS
Many sessions (7 to 17) of 1 hr each
You and your spouse must take time off work and travel to their office during normal working hours
Mediators charge anything from $2000 plus the cost of an attorney $3000+
Most mediators have other day-jobs and do not practice solely as mediators
Lawyers always win 50% and loose 50% Regular mediators settle 60 to 70%
Regular mediators / attorneys focus on division of assets, liabilities and children not on the relationship
Couples change their minds many times before getting to a regular lawyer or mediator, but why not after that? Maybe because lawyers and regular mediators take the side of the one who wants a divorce?
Regular lawyers and mediators do not see themselves as teachers. They are conflict managers who get paid to manage the conflict and benefit the longer it continue.
The focus is on the here and now with nothing done about the future.
Next time you have a conflict you wll have to do the same thing - return to the lawyer or regular mediator and pay again.
Managing conflict is not resolving it in the long term, it is just 'til next time. It is the difference between giving a fish or giving a fishing pole and teaching how to fish. The big difference is over generations because children of divorce are twice as likely to divorce themselves.
Corporations cannot see to your needs in the same way that a persnal relationship wth one competent friendly and helpful person can. No company can beat the personal service of a specialist in the field for over 20 years.
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